After reading the story, the majority of users immediately deemed that the mom was in the wrong in this situation, with many suggesting she should seriously rethink how she handled the situation. And it’s hardly surprising the post evoked such a reaction from the community, especially considering that babysitting is one of the most underpaid and underappreciated jobs out there.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the median hourly wage for childcare workers in the US was $13.22 in May 2021. The 10% of workers who earned the lowest got less than $8.91, while the highest 10% of earners were paid more than $17.99 an hour. However, the pandemic forced many people in the childcare sector to reevaluate their choices and look for safer jobs with higher pay.
In a piece in The New York Times, Emma Goldberg stated that after the childcare field shrank, more than half of the families in the country reported having trouble finding childcare. The shortage of care workers led parents in desperate need of help with their kids facing a challenge, and many parents — especially mothers — had to leave their jobs to look after the children. So if this tells us one thing, it’s that parents who manage to find a good, kind, and trustworthy worker should try to hold on to them at all costs.
But while many readers felt perplexed by the way the situation escalated, childcare is a topic that tends to spark different opinions between people. Or, as Dr. Sarah Mundy, clinical psychologist, author of Parenting Through Stories, and mom of three told Bored Panda in a previous interview, our ideas about babysitters will always vary. “As do our ideas about many things!”
We humans shape ideas about the world based on our own experiences and the expectations we have developed from them. Difficulties might come from different anticipations and opinions on how it’s normal to act in specific cases. “The most important thing is to have an open conversation with the babysitter before you leave about your expectations,” Dr. Mundy told us.
But if you wonder if the parent is responsible for the property their children destroy, it all comes down to their age. According to reporter Ian Mendes, it’s a free pass if an incident involves a toddler. “If you leave something out — like your phone or an expensive pair of sunglasses — and a toddler destroys it, the onus should be on you as the owner for not taking better care of your things.”
But when a child is a bit grown up, as the boys in the story, it’s a different scenario. Mendes wrote that when a child damages someone’s private property, the parents should be responsible for their actions — especially when they’re not as close. “They should certainly make every effort to replace the broken article to the best of their ability,” he added.
We’re curious to hear your opinions on the whole ordeal. What do you think about the woman’s reaction? Should 8 and 6-year-olds be wise enough to know not to touch other people’s things or was it the babysitter who was wrong to leave the laptop in plain sight? Feel free to share your thoughts below in the comments.
People unanimously said the mom needs to seriously rethink her actions